For Texas Tech Coach, Reminders of Late Daughter Are Everywhere at WCWS: ‘She’s Been With Us’
OKLAHOMA CITY — As the Women’s College World Series roars with the energy of fans, fast pitches, and big dreams, Texas Tech head coach Craig Snider finds quiet moments of reflection amid the chaos. For Snider, this year’s WCWS is not just about softball — it’s a deeply personal journey marked by memory, grief, and love.
Snider’s daughter, Emily, passed away unexpectedly two years ago at the age of 13. Her death left a hole in the lives of those who loved her, and especially in the heart of her father, who has since found solace in honoring her memory through the sport they both loved.
“This whole season, and especially being here in Oklahoma City, I feel like she’s been with us every step of the way,” Snider said, his voice thick with emotion. “It’s hard to explain, but there are signs, little reminders, that she’s still part of this team.”
At the WCWS, those reminders are everywhere — from the purple ribbons worn by players to a small heart-shaped charm on Snider’s lanyard. Each piece is a quiet tribute to Emily, who was known for her vibrant personality and love of softball.
“She was our biggest fan,” Snider said. “She came to every game, sat in the dugout when she could. She loved the girls, loved the energy. This would’ve been her dream.”
Snider, in his second season leading the Texas Tech softball program, has often spoken to his team about resilience — not just on the field, but in life. Many of the players have drawn strength from their coach’s openness about his grief, and in turn, they’ve rallied around him with unwavering support.
Senior shortstop Maddie Collins said the team feels like Emily is part of their journey. “Coach always talks about playing for something bigger than ourselves,” she said. “When we take the field, we’re playing for each other — and we’re playing for Emily.”
Snider’s wife, Melissa, and their two sons made the trip to Oklahoma City, joining thousands of fans who’ve packed the stands. For the Snider family, it’s a bittersweet experience: pride in the team’s success, and the ache of an absence that never truly goes away.
“The WCWS is the pinnacle of college softball,” Snider said. “It’s where champions are made. And in a way, just being here, with all these girls who fight so hard, reminds me of Emily’s spirit. She never gave up on anything.”
While Texas Tech’s run in the WCWS remains uncertain, one thing is clear — for Coach Snider, the tournament has already been a victory of the heart. With every pitch, every cheer, and every tribute, the memory of his daughter lives on.
“She would’ve loved this,” Snider said, smiling faintly. “And I know, somehow, she’s still here with us.”
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